Tuesday, November 30, 2010
After two weeks of life, my daughter started fussing when it was time for her to sleep. During these times she required being held- preferably standing and bouncing. Nothing awful, no screaming, just tiring. We tried giving her a binky, but from the beginning she made it very clear that she wanted nothing to do with it. This was communicated to us by gagging, coughing, looking insulted, and crying very loudly when we attempted to give her the binky. We figured the bright side was that we would not have to deal with weaning her at some future point. On top of this, she seemed to hate being in the car. On at last 3 occasions, instead of sleeping she would cry. And cry. And cry. When things started getting worse at six weeks instead of better, it began to wear on us. Wear at our very soul.
One night, my parents babysat for us so that my husband and I could go on a date and have a conversation that lasted longer than 5 minutes, and on a topic other than our children. This had not happened for about 4 weeks. Three hours have never been so refreshing. When we returned, we were witnesses to a miracle. My parents had somehow persuaded our baby to not only take the binky, but she was laying on a blanket on the floor peacefully drifting off to sleep. My jaw dropped to the floor. I don't care how they did it, but they did.
Since that day, the binky has continued to work its magic on our baby. Not only is she sleeping better at home, but she actually sleeps in the car! And I can say with true conviction that I'm a believer in the miracles that a binky can perform. The binky difference has been so big, we will gladly deal with weaning her if it means we can actually sleep, in our bed, and without an aching back. I don't pretend to ignore the fact that nothing stays the same for very long with a baby, but hope is alive.
Thank you binky. Thank you.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
7:05- Wake up
7:09- Nap again
7:10- Eat again
8:01- Nap for 9 minutes
8:03- Calm down time
8:05- Calm down time
8:07- Calm down
8:09- Calm down
9:02- Go to sleep
Thursday, November 11, 2010
14. There's an increase in the number of one-way conversations you have in a day.
13. You cheer for burps.
12. Your standards for a good night's sleep have become more liberal.
11. You're in the business of stopping leaks.
10. You consider changing from pajama bottoms into sweatpants to be an upgrade.
9. Showering has become a luxury and is now done in record speed.
8. Every 3-4 hours you wonder, "Left or right side?"
7. When your husband gets home from work, he finds you sitting in the exact same spot on the couch nursing as when he left in the morning.
6. You log about as much time on your couch sleeping as you do in your bed.
5. You've suddenly adopted a new exercise regimen that consists of walking the equivalent of 1 mile a day, in your house, while rocking and bouncing.
4. Breakfast for dinner has become a weekly occurrence.
3. At no other time would you be okay with another human tooting on you.
2. Making sure your son's frogs get fed twice a week has become a challenge.
1. Your heart has quadrupled in size.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
If my mama had told me about yesterday, I would have found a hole to crawl into and never come out.